KONSEP POLA ASUH ORANG TUA DI ERA DIGITAL BERDASARKAN AL-QUR`AN SURAT AN-NISA (Studi Tematik)

Abstract

Family education is the basis for parents, because parents have the soul to guide, direct, equip and develop the knowledge, values ​​and skills of their children, so that they are able to face challenges in the future. Al-Qur’an-based education is education based on the values ​​of Islamic teachings that are applied in the Qur’an which aims to form children who have faith and piety and have noble character which includes ethics, morals, character, spirituality or understanding and practicing values. Religious values ​​in everyday life, such as the value of education which is said by Allah SWT about the pattern of parenting contained in the surah An-Nisa.

      The objectives in the discussion of the thesis include: a) to find out the concept of parenting in the digital era b) to find out the concept of parenting based on the Al-Qur’an surah An-Nisa, c) to determine the implementation of parenting patterns based on Al-Qur’an surah An-Nisa in the digital era.

      This research is a type of library research, which is a research or a specific and special way of working that is useful for knowing scientific knowledge from a document put forward by past and present scientists. In this thesis, the researcher analyzes the content of the object of research in the form of documents, namely the interpretation of Al-Misbah, the interpretation of Fi Zhilalil Qur'an and the interpretation of Ibn Kathir Surah An-Nisa verse 9 by way of description in the form of words and language, in a special context. natural and by utilizing various scientific methods.

      The results of the author's research, among others: First, the concept of parenting in the digital era includes: a) Authoritative parenting, namely encouraging children to be independent but still putting boundaries and control over their actions. b) Authoritarian parenting, namely the attitude of always rejecting the wishes of children and preventing them from realizing certain desires. c) patient parenting, namely the attitude applied by parents with great patience in dealing with the behavior of their children. d) neglectful parenting, namely parents who do not care and ignore children without direction, guidance, motivation, rewards for good deeds, and punishment for bad deeds.

      Second, how to implement education in the family in the digital era based on the Al-Qur’an Surah An-Nisa, among others: a) physical and spiritual education b) aqidah education c) morals education d) full responsibility e) emotional closeness, d) clear educational goals f) speak well, g) teach religion, h) prepare children to enter the digital world.

      Third, the implementation of parenting styles for parents in the digital era based on the Al-Qur’an surah An-Nisa, among others: a) applying parenting patterns with proper religious education, b) getting children used to saying good things, of course with good uswah from their parents, c) make children strong in all fields to become successful and independent individuals, d) equip children with assets (if able) so that they have provisions for a prosperous life, e) in this digital era children must be equipped with science and technology, so that can live with the times that continue to develop, adapt to the demands of the times and adapt to the circumstances.